Buyer wins my item 2-3 weeks ago.
Pays item cost via paypal, but not postage.
I email to check if they are going to collect, as address is opposite end of country.
I hear nothing in reply.
I wait.
I email again. I hear nothing.
I refund the cost, explaining that she needs to pay that and the postage.
I get fed up and lodge an unpaid item thingy.
Buyer, who has now has a refund, emails to say 'post the item and then I will pay the postage'.
I reply that she must pay before I post!
No reply.
Ebay close the case and credit my fees back to me
The same day, I get notification from paypal that she has paid me the winning amount and postage.
I have refunded he, explaining that the case was cancelled. I don't want to sell to her outside ebay, even through paypal, as she seemed really suss to me.What if she tries to reclaim the money? Was I right?