So decided to be organised and sell items and post in the Uk ( I am in Italy and had relation going back with empty case). I state on listings will post to UK and place UK postage costs only. I get 1 req for international postage via messages so reply with cost - to have proof of postage or signed for from here is expensive hence doing this all from the UK.
State all items going to the Uk on X date . SO i get 2 items purchased by foreign buyers who have not yet paid I sent invoice with the foreign postage. ( so don't know whether to send to the Uk etc.) Arrggghhhh well lesson learned next time will put on here as free for postage! Oh and I still have 1 item that had 15 watchers that has not paid. Hats off to those of you who do this regularly.