feedback etiquette?

[Botticelli]

Who leaves it first? seller or buyer?
I always thought it was the buyer who left pos. feedback when they were happy with their purchase, Its what I've always done, but now I've sold a few things, all nice prompt payers, and I've immediatly sent item; but I've only had one feedback so far.
So are they waiting for me to leave them a pos.?

Depends I think.

I must admit, as mainly a seller, after they changed it so sellers couldn't leave negative I now wait until I receive fb before leaving any.

Also had an arsey bloke this week mithering about where his item was (sent RD as requested, he took 3 days to pay and after a further 3 (including Sunday) is moaning. Hell will freeze before he gets any fb from me.

there are no rules - I normally leave as a seller on dispatch saying item is on its way, as I can't see the point of with-holding it as I can't leave a neg any more. Is lots less hassle than leaving it individually once you receive feedback too.

Many buyers will never leave you feedback - even if you leave them theirs, many people just don't bother.