OK, so bought item for £125 local pick up only.
I buy it, contact him and he says he will send his address/phone number once the paypal money is showing in his account 
- all very polite I might add and we can collect as soon as.
I reply saying would he not prefer cash on pick up, and although he can look at my feedback and see I have a well established account, advise to be careful accepting PP for pick up only items blah blah blah, but if he would still like me to pay via PP I can still, also leave my number.
I finally recieve another message, but just a duplicate of the first one he sent about once mojney is in PP blah blah, now not sure if he has made a mistake or being a bit erm.....rude. I don't mind if he wants PP but I also realise that due to him having only sold 2 items nearly a year ago and only 55 feedback, that PP will prob hold onto his money will they not?
If so - he cannot make me wait the 21 days until I can collect it can he? Bloody hell! Not heard from him again now, I did email politely saying about this and that I didn't want to do anything abuot payment until I heard from him.......of course the poor bloke might have just gone out, but he doesn't seem to know how it works and concerned he will want to wait until the funds are released to him