Not really an ebay-related. A person who I know very little but who I had one large transaction in the past (sold a summer house in another country) asked me to send a document related to this transaction. I have to arrange a private courier to DHL depot. All in all it is around 250GBP charge, which I am happy to pay if she sends the money immediately. Bank transfer will take a few days.
What about paypal? How much should I request to cover the fees or is there an option to make the person who sends the money to pay those? I am paypal clueless...