Feelings for donor

[Theonewiththehoops]

I made the biggest mistake I could by falling in love with my sperm donor after a year of talking and 3 months of trying. I’m now pregnant and he doesn’t want to be with me despite saying he feels the same. He doesn’t want the baby but he wants to stay in touch to make sure everything goes ok. How do I move on from this my heart is broken.

He donated sperm.but doesn't want the baby? As in he wants to father the baby but not BE A FATHER, just a donor? Has he backed out of donating? He doesn't want you and him to raise a child together?
I'm confused.

You can't force him to be in a relationship with you, you need to address your own feelings, process them and get over him. He's made his feelings clear. Pursuing him will drive him further away and only cause you further heartache.

On a practical note, was this donation agreement casual? Do you have a 'contract'?

• ignore the part about backing out of donating