Hello we are in a same sex relationship (4 years) . We requested a referral in January to fertility clinic both NHS and private - we have now had all the tests completed privately and just have to complete the counselling part before first round of IUI. Today we received a letter from the NHS about making an appointment - should we now go with both? We are scrimping and saving to pay for the private option so NHS option is very tempting. This ever happen to anyone else ??