So ive written on here before about my husband and leaving due to his drinking and verbal abuse.
I still haven't gone but things arent different, anyway last week there was an incident that made me email the housing department (ive had an alplication in since last year) i just emailed and said the kids are witnessing more from his behaviours drunk and sober, where would I be put if we went homeless? Now I wanted to avoid this as I know some areas and they arent good. Anyway they have phoned me Wednesday of last week and offered me a house.
I was in shock, shock... shaking the lot. Anyway it seems perfect and now my anxiety has really started. Ive applied for benefits but can't claim housing until I have the tenancy agreement. The house is getting repairs done and should be available end of this month.
Issue I have is my husband comes back from work the 12th of this month then has 6 weeks off. How do I do this as I want my kids rooms done before I move?
Im barley sleeping, thinking about him finding out is terrifying me. When he's home im either working or with him. Now that I have the opportunity I feel sick. Now it takes 3 seconds to find a video of him screaming at me to take me back but please someone who has already been through this tell me it gets better?
He's still messaging from work acting normal even although his two weeks home wasnt fun. This is so hard!