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POST SEPERATION ABUSE SUPPORT LOCAL/ANYWHERE

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LeniforlittleO · 19/07/2026 18:48

Im in East Sussex and have been failed by every organisation meant to protect for 2 years in a case nor one MP will meet me face to face to discuss because of the need for it not to be investigated at the cost of destroying my life. Ive had IDVAs, mental health teans validating everything in support of me but because of the organisations involved and safeguarding failure they are intent on bullying all support systems away to shut me up. I got online support from a mothers group attempting to push for help from MPs but saw themselves the stonewalling and all solicitors claiming lack of capacity and devices interferred with! I just need some support for me as a human being as it involves famly court as you can imagine and its been a cruel case no one wants investigating. I can do the paperwork, im fighting the fight for my child and my human rights but the smear campaign and enabling of cyber bullying is just getting too much. I just need some human beings, local,anywhere to help me feel safe again, like I didnt move from London to East Sussex and have my life destroyed leaving a marriage because of a job title meaning more than my human rights. Anyone out there that can remind me theres still people out there that care about human beings. 2 years in, case from hell being let down and losing alot of people along the way. Id appreciate any support to know im not alone in this experience to keep me going because im tired, humiliated and need a light to know I srill belong here and to keep going. Im struggling to stay strong when it feels like they will never stop.

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Summertime2006 · 10/08/2026 15:11

Hey, I get it. I know it is hard but try stay strong whilst you are in the process. You need to think as logically as you can at the moment and any emotion shown to the other side will be used against you. I was let down by the police, children services and even my own IDVA oh and solicitors actually too. So I get feeling let down by people. It's an awful process and the courts do not think about abuse.

PelucheCat · 15/08/2026 12:59

How are you OP?
Personally I find Mumsnet and Deezer to be more supportive than some other groups/ people that are supposed to be there for us! And a cup of tea with a friend, or just a nice person, make a huge difference sometimes☕.
You don't give many details, hope things are better for you now xx

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