Help end medical misogyny. Sign our petition.

Help end medical misogyny.
Sign our petition.

Sign the petition

Please or to access all these features

Divorce/separation

Here you'll find divorce help and support from other Mners. For legal advice, you may find Advice Now guides useful.

Divorce

3 replies

mummyof3kiddies · 09/07/2026 22:14

I’m typing this with a very heavy heart. I want to find some friends who have been through a similar experience as me. Me and my husband got married when I was 19. Now 20 years later we have 3 kids and I’ve come to a firm decision to leave him. He is a very jealous man who is always suspicious of me even though I’ve always been faithful, caring and a good mother. There is a condition called othellos syndrome, I wonder if anyone else is in the same situation as me.

OP posts:
ecologist111444 · 10/07/2026 14:12

Hi there @mummyof3kiddies I’m also going through a separation/divorce so just wanted to say that I share your pain. I have a 13 year old daughter as well. He doesn’t sound like a nice guy, jealousy is never a good thing.

ecologist111444 · 10/07/2026 14:36

@mummyof3kiddies I've been reading about othellos syndrome. Has your husband been formally diagnosed with it? It doesn't sound good at all. Are you and the kids safe from him?

mummyof3kiddies · Yesterday 18:27

I’m so sorry you’re separating but sometimes it’s for the best especially when your other half takes away your peace. It’s been hell. He is very loving with the kids as most suffering from this condition. He can’t help to think I’m unfaithful and keeps verbally abuse me and to ask for prove which I don’t have to the point I had a mental breakdown and went A&E. When I’m at work he thinks I’m out cheating and keeps video calling me. I’ve just come across OS and wanted to know if anyone had any experience.

OP posts:
New posts on this thread. Refresh page