So, 2 months ago my husband said he was worried about our marriage and that we were disconnected, he has a very busy job and travels sometimes, we have 2 children. He criticised things about my personality that I’ve worked on. I have worked so hard to get us to reconnect and then a couple of weeks ago he said he’s just not in love with me, he’s sleeping in a separate room and making no effort to connect with me emotionally or physically. Around the children we are putting on a united front. I feel so sad, I don’t want to split the family up for the sake of the children and how lovely he was, I feel totally blindsided! He said there’s no one else but that we’ve grown apart. At the moment, we’re seeing how things go but he’s making no effort to repair the marriage, as much as I still would like to save it, is it time to tell him to leave? I’ve not spoken with any family or friends about it as I guess I’ve been in complete denial as I never thought he would change like this, he seems like a complete stranger.