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I really want this - not for me but for kids - please tell me if it’s possible?

Very unlikely. I assume you don’t have a job? That’s the first thing I would do - look for one. We would need way more details to advise

It’s impossible for anyone here to say

people will come along and say they did or not but it totally depends on your situation and how long you’ve been together, how old you both are, and importantly what assets there are along with your earnings potential and income.

without knowing any of those no one can even hazard a guess

Impossible for anyone to say but I would really like to win the lottery. Not for me- for the kids