70/30 possible ?

[Thefirstone123]

Married 20 years together 33 .
He’s income 90k . I have worked part time to support family 2 adult. Children but currently not working as have mental heath problems caused by years of abuse from Husband .
Finally plucking up courage to leave , do or die ! .
what are my chances of getting 70 percent of house value ?
How can I prove domestic abuse ?
only proof is I told a therapist (NHS ) in 2021 when I was suicidal.

Totally depends on what assets there are and if 50:50 deemed sufficient to provide for needs.

no one here can tell

I got 70/30 on the house and left his pensions alone but my DC are still dependent, live with me full time and both have disabilities. I have to home school the youngest while wfh.

I did, in fact 72 % and a Mesher Order - one dependant child at the time and two older teens. I self repped up to a final hearing. It's possible certainly but each case is decided on its own merits.

He has verbally agreed to 70/30 split is there a document I can get him to sign to make it legal ? .
thanks .

You’ll need to complete d81 and get consent order drawn up

have you got full financial disclosure? Know what all assets are? Is there a sound legal basis for the disparity etc

have both of you had independent legal advice? You’ll be asked to demonstrate that.

How old are your children?

I got 70% but I was housing the kids still ( and worked full time) I think it’s going to be more challenging for you as the kids are grown up and essentially all you need is a home for yourself. Get a good solicitor. Even if you proved DA I’d say it’s an unlikely outcome.