I hope there may be some advice/reassurance please.
Married 23yrs, never a happy marriage, he has always done his own thing, never interested in days out with me and kids. I even took them on holidays by myself (only cheap UK ones).
2 kids both adults but our son has severe disabilities and medical issues. He is like a toddler (mentality wise) and requires 24/7 care. I have devoted my life to caring for him whilst working flexible part time hours to earn some money.
Desperate to get out of this unhappy marriage but I will need 50% of all assets including his pension to buy a home for my son and me, giving him the care he needs and making everything safe for him.
Husband has contributed the money but I have cared day & night for my boy, sorted all school, clubs etc always do activities with him and sort all hospital appts etc.
I know he will argue its his money and not agree.
Anyone have any idea if I stand a chance at this?
It's been total misery for over 20yrs with him I honestly cannot bear it anymore!