I am looking at divorcing my husband after a 33 year marriage we both are in our late 50s and have got 4 children together the older one is in college and the other 3 are in school one is Altestic the problem is that I am the only one who looks after our son who is Altestic and my husband does not bother with him but he does everything with the other children he makes our Altestic son feel like he is not wanted by him