My soon to be ex husband has been pretty petty and spiteful during our whole divorce/separation so far. He recently told me he and his mother booked a holiday to take our 2 year old to Majorca for 12 nights, didn’t run it by me, just booked and paid for it last November. I explained personally it’s too long for me and my daughter to be away from each other, especially as she’s stuck to me like glue most of the time. He’s refused to change it, is it bad if I go over after a week to see her? not stop at the same hotel but maybe very close by. They will probably hate the idea and protest, but I find it disrespectful what he’s done, and I’m struggling massively with the thought of my 2 year old in a different country for that long.