How

[Husband3t]

How do I tell my husband that I am leaving him

I've been pondering this for several years. Hoping to find some good suggestions here. It's awful OP, you have my sympathies.

Are you close to leaving him

What do you mean sort of depends on the why

Do you mean why I am leaving my husband

If he is controlling it can make you very unsafe.

He started huge arguments with me most of the time and he keeps fwalling me around the house and if I go food shopping on my own he will accuse me of cheating on him

Then leaving could be a dangerous time for you.

Do you have children?

Does he have any means to see your Internet history? Block that.

Then leave without telling him. Get out first, to be safe.

Yes we do have children 4 15 year old son and 14 year old daughter and 13year old daughter and 10year old son

If you ask for your thread to be moved to relationships there is a lot of advice pinned to the top of each post, especially about domestic abuse and personal safety. Jealous angry, accusatory men are abusers. It's not all about hitting, but it can escalate dramatically, especially when you try to leave.
Choose the report option and ask to be moved to relationships. There's more support there

You need to plan this carefully. Probably start by phoning or emailing Women's Aid .

https://www.womensaid.org.uk/