Marriage irretrievable, has been for several years. DH wont move out. Says its 'his' house (we have joint mortgage on it). House has come up for rental a few streets away. Considering renting that but would still have to pay my share of mortgage too, on top of monthly rent, til we can sell it. I wont qualify for financial help. Still have 1 child 16+ at home, who wont want upheaval of moving as loves his room and has many shared interests with his father, so i face taking the rental and child saying they want to stay put - so will look like im abandoning him. Cant face heading into another new year of this but know DH will never move out. Anyone been in this situation? *My understanding is that moving out wouldnt act like me giving up my entitlement to the equity, but id have to let mortgage lender know i was moving out