I have been married for 8 years. No children. No pets. I have a small cafe.
Husband doesn't work but has a commercial unit full of workshop and 12 cars. I pay the bills. I pay for most things unless I can't then his mum does. We are in our 50s. We have seperate bedrooms.
Its been 4 years of him shouting and wearing me down, no violence, but I didn't want to be the one that leaves. He won't leave,
I rent the house, a shop and don't drive. I have no assets. Savings £4000 He has lots that would add up like the 12 cars and workshop.
Do I just close the business and leave? I love living here and the community cafe but maybe he's ruined it and I need to relocate and start again.
As any divorce would be expensive it would be better to walk away? Or can he continue to make me pay even from afar.