My divorce is now final. I documented the whole sorry downfall on here under a few usernames.
My ex was the delight that gifted the OW a framed copy of our Wedding Poem Scaffolding by Seamus Heaney and who followed the Script to a tee!
At the time I had to leave the house as his parents owned it, his behaviour practically broke me! I conducted myself with dignity and now the final lune in the sand is drawn.
I feel much better, loving my new house, about to qualify in my Masters and safe in the fact he had to pay for the divorce and pay extra as he had to apply to the court for papers to be served via email as he has no idea where I live.
Things I have learnt
1, trust your instinct it really does tell the truth, don't fall for the lies.
2, your seemingly perfect marriage can easily fall apart
3, if you suspect anything do read The Script they act it out exactly as is written.
4, it does get easier.
5, conduct yourself with dignity
6, there is karma, rotten fruit falls by itself.
7, the minute you suspect anything, go stealth and collect evidence!
My world fell apart in 2021 so much happier now I'm rid of him forever