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[Maryagness19]

After months of separate bedrooms my partner has come back to the marital bed.
but he will not put his wedding ring back on he seems very loving tbh but is this just a show to cover what is actually going on.
I fear he is seeing somebody when he works away and is just biding his time until he money problems are solved that won’t be long now. I watch everything he does when he text me when he online ect I find it hard to trust him wish I could any advise on how to confront him about the wedding ring

why have you let him back in? and you are a grown adult, if you both want to 'try again' why can't you simply ask him.. wheres your ring?

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Maryagness19 · Today 14:15
After months of separate bedrooms my partner has come back to the marital bed.
but he will not put his wedding ring back on he seems very loving tbh but is this just a show to cover what is actually going on.
I fear he is seeing somebody when he works away and is just biding his time until he money problems are solved that won’t be long now. I watch everything he does when he text me when he online ect I find it hard to trust him wish I could any advise on how to confront him about the wedding ring

I think you are better off without him, the trust is gone.

I'm sorry - is there a background here?

Yes he walked about about 6 month ago back and gone again now back I thought it was a breakdown.as he was quite low went to his mothers but now back about 3 months in separate room but after weekend he back with me but not put his ring back on

Just came back to the house and then to the bed and no discussion??

You need a conversation where you ask these questions. But he can't up and leave and come back whenever he wants to.

I know it must be hard but ask him or end it... To be honest if there hasn't been a conversation then I would be ended it as that treatment is awful.