Struggling

[Limefield]

Morning guys
separated 10 days ago met with husband for first time last night he blames the breakdown on me and whilst I accept some of what he says he was at fault as well
he says he still loves me but fell out of love with me
says no one else involved and never will be as he’s broken
refused marriage guidance
really struggling just want him to come home

My ex said that and there was someone else involved. There mostly is.

What does your gut say? Where's he staying?

Regardless of what he is or isn't doing Try, try to focus on you right now. Of course you're struggling, who wouldn't be? Do you have friends and family you can lean on?

Treat yourself with utmost care. Try to eat and stay dehydrated if you can. You will be OK even though it doesn't feel that way now.

why did you meet up with him?

we met as I felt I needed to get some points across
he’s saying there’s no one else but I’m destroyed
I can’t eat at all and under Dr and other teams
don’t even know what he means with he loves me but fell out of love with me x
thank you

He is a big man baby who needs a dummy not a wife.

It’s still very early days in the separation and you’ll both be feeling emotional. Blaming you may be coming from a place of anger or hurt. Without knowing what happened and how the marriage broke down it’s really hard to say any more, but I’m sure you’ll come out of this situation happier. Being in a bad marriage couldn’t have been good for you x

well that was a bad idea op

i suspect you’ll get back with him when his affair ends