My ex has decided he wants to go the legal route for a CAO, I have no problem with this and hope we can agree in mediation on what are arrangements will be however incase we can’t agree I just want to be prepared for what to expect the court to decide.
DD is 4 months old contact so far has been her dad coming to my house for several hours at a time 2/3 times when he is off work and I will leave him to it and get on with cleaning etc unless DD needs me for anything. He works 4 in 4 off. While I am on maternity leave at the moment when I go back to work I will be working 2 set days most likely Friday and Saturday.
so far he has not taken her to his house for contact yet as she really struggles to settle for anyone but me, I am also worried about some aspects of care with her. If he drops dummies/teething toys on the floor he thinks they can just be wiped and given back to her instead of sterilised and put her in bouncer when she couldn’t support herself.
i have been the one who has arranged all medical appointments and keeps on top of her prescriptions.
Can anyone who has been through family courts with a similar situation advise on what the outcome was?