We are about to exchange form E and EXH is not working anymore. I am the higher earner. EXH is also being tricky and doing the paperwork at the very last minute. He didn't want to do this, he wanted it all sorted out between us informally! This is my life, I have 2 dependants, so how anyone can suggest this informally is beyond me... I think it is a) because of laziness, b) to hide how much debt he is in and c) to make things work for him.
He has credit card debt and I believe, no savings. I have some savings and no debt (except for mortgage).
We still need to agree on childcare custody however I am reading posts that if spouse does not work, they can get higher equity to house themselves. I also made a few overpayments on the mortgage.
Has anyone been in a similar situation and was this the case for you?