I'm divorced now, by a week, and still just settling into my new life, it's going to take a while, I now realise this.
Whatever part of the process you are in, take time for yourself, that doesn't have to be a spa break, it might just be standing at your back door, breath, relax and tell yourself you will get through this.
Emotions will roll and rumble and change even from one minute to the next.
Believe you are strong and find as much reliable support you can find. Good luck.