My ex and I separated two years ago, finally ready to address the divorce now due various issues.
we’ve got our first mediation on Saturday, she’s not happy about my pensions. I’ve had a pension up to 2018 which I’m happy to split. I also have a new pension I started in 2018 and have said I will split the value up to the separation (£87k.)she wants half the value of that pension now (£240k).
legally she may have a position on it but morally I’m appalled that’s I’ve been saving hard for two years to limit the damage to the original pension and now it’s all for nothing.
am I being selfish here or do I actually have a point!