Ex husband being really nice

[Sallyxox]

Hey,

so over 3 months of seperation, things have settled down and me and ex hub are being civilised now everyone’s gonna prob shout and be like cut him off then or be greatful but hear me out.

he’s being super nice, said he will always be there for me and little one we are part of his life and always will be. I had a flat tyre he was messaging me telling me he will come sort it for me and was quite persistent didn’t want me struggling, anyway my dad helped and got a new tyre to which then ex hubs sent me money for.

so all this is lovely and really is a way id like us to be moving forward and I’d help him if I could with anything.

issue - I obv still have some sort of feelings and start over thinking if it’s more hahaha! Good god!

so just how do u be so civil while not loosing ur mind? Is there a way?

Keep it nice and polite don't spend too much time with him or text.

You’ve split for a reason. Unless that has completely been resolved you are better separated.

Ime be suspicious.. Similar I asked ex to fix a tyre.. Once brought me some baby wipes... Claimed to court he should have dc as I obviously couldn't manage... Ime way too soon to be genuinely nice.. Look at why you split. Was he as nice then?

Urm yeah he’s not been horrible it was just the pure sadness of the relationship ending so there was some arguing but nothing dramatic.

so hard when ur separated feel like it will take ages to find out what’s genuine, I just feel it’s too soon to be this good of friends.