STBXH is dragging things on as much as he can, and now we're weeks away from being able to apply for the conditional order, is trying to hold up the financial side of things.
I'm looking for a clean break order. He's looking for... Well, it's not exactly clear to me what he wants! Mostly just going on about how unfair everything is, poor him, etc. He's got no solicitor, and doesn't seem like he wants to get any legal advice.
He is on benefits, no savings, no permanent address. He didn't work during our marriage, but thinks doing some DIY entitles him to something somehow. I have a small amount of savings (made after separation), a job (although not massively stable), and a lot of credit card debt (most of which accumulated during the marriage, as I was paying for everything), and currently renting. No shared assets or pensions.
What is a judge likely to order, if it goes to court? I can't see him cooperating with mediation. I've got a meeting with my solicitor next week, but it's just on my mind and worrying me!