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Want to split from husband.

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magicduck1 · 27/02/2023 16:06

Hi
I want to leave my relationship. We have been together 6 years and the last couple of years have been terrible. He has turned into a alcoholic drinks 20 can of beer a day. I tried a number of times last year to separate but he is having none of it. I can't do this anymore. I have teenage kids who are not his. Problem is the house is a council house and is in my name but he won't leave council say he does have rights as we married. I don't have the money to private rent. I desperately need some advice? I pay all the bills.

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Vegrocks · 27/02/2023 16:08

This man is around your teenage children?

GreenFingersWouldBeHandy · 27/02/2023 16:09

Call the police and boot him out! The house is in your name. If you don't want him there, then he has to go.

Or get a couple of male friends around to help....

I'm assuming he doesn't work if he's drinking 20 cans a day? I'd just wait until he's passed out, start packing for him and leave his bags outside. And take your keys back (or change the locks).

Vegrocks · 27/02/2023 16:11

And your children are much younger than teenagers (8 years old according to your other thread 😐 )

TheFormidableMrsC · 27/02/2023 16:11

You need to apply for an Occupation Order. You can download the forms and do it yourself. I'm sorry you're dealing with such a nightmare situation. Also gives Women's Aid a call. It might be worth seeing if your council has a DV officer. I had a friend in a similar situation and while not physical domestic abuse, the council helped her to get him removed.

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