Recent Separation & Pregnancy

[April1990]

Found out DH was having an intimate affair with someone he works with for almost a year around 6 weeks ago. He has been staying at his Mum and Dads whilst I've been in the family home with our 2 year old.

I've just found out I'm pregnant and don't know what the hell to think. We had discussed baby no 2 the last few weeks but can't quite believe it.

What's everyone's thoughts? 🤯

I think you take one day at a time.

Do you have anyone you can talk to in real life.

If you have any uncertainty about keeping the baby then uou can call Marie Stopes International - they offer free and non-judgmental counselling but there's a bit of a waiting list.

Make sure he's pulling his weight looking after your DC (at his mum and dad's) so you get the time and headspace to work out what you want.

Also, you can tell him in your own time.

Thanks @Whataretheodds !

Yes I've told my Mother already as she's currently staying with me and we are very close.

My emotions are all over the place after the sudden shock of finding out my 'perfect' husband wasn't so 'perfect', and now baby news to contend with. Life really does test you sometimes!