So me and dh are on the verge of potentially separating. We have come to a crossroads, have had couples therapy, we are now taking some time to think about the options and what to do next.
I think on all likelihood we will decide to split in some form but I don't know if i should be looking into what our financial situation would be like if we did so that we have covered everything.
We both earn fairly similar, have similar savings, joint own a home, and are friends.
Should I be looking into what mortgages I could get, do I just use a comparison site to gauge or filter on some specific banks to get more accurate data.
Ds will start getting free hours in Jan so that will have a positive impact on our expenditure.
I feel crappy, but trying to be logical about everything right now and feel prepared for either option.