Hi there, I’m currently going through a divorce. I’ve left the marital home with my 17yr old son as my ex was growing weed on a large scale and would not allow me access to the bedroom so I had to sleep on a sofa (I initiated the split). We have a joint mortgage on that house and I’m renting, he pays the mortgage as and when he wants as currently it’s coming out of my personal account (This is due to him defaulting and threatening to not pay it). I have arranged for the house to be valued and have informed him of this but he is refusing this as he says he away that’s week. Can I still go ahead with the valuation without him present? He has been difficult and did not attend mediation so we will now have to attend court to get a financial disclosure and order. I’m so drained! I’m now thinking that I will buy him out as he has been stalking in doing this for 8mths, either that or we sell? I’m so confused 😐 I do have a solicitor but try to fo as much as I can myself. Anyone else gone through similar and have any advice?