We have a second home in the Mediterranean that me and my toddler visit every couple of months to see my partner who works here, same place, same partner (who my toddler adores and knows from living with us, prior to the abroad move) same routine however my ex who hardly sees our child doesn't agree and thinks it bad for her. Considering my ex moved hundreds of miles away before our divorce was finalised, should I worry what other people think if my daughter is happy and thriving?