Husband cheating with prostitutes

[Citymum27]

I need your advice ladies, my husband and I have been together for four years, married for two, and just had a baby girl two months ago. After being out all night he admitted he has slept with prostitutes twice, once when I was pregnant and once the other night. I’m obviously floored and didn’t expect it. Can you please share advice on what I should do. I’m in shock and can’t think clearly, also postnatally hormonal. I asked him to stay elsewhere since he confessed three nights ago.
thank you.

If I were you, the marriage would be over. Immediately. 100%, absolute deal breaker.

Yeah sorry op but he'd be out the door.
I'm sorry

Christ.

You must be in shock. How awful.
Well done for kicking him out. Don't take him back will you. His behaviour is irredeemable. How utterly shitty.

Do you have close family or friends you can talk to? Don't say everything, if u don't want, just that he cheated.

This has to be the end, OP. Not only has he betrayed you and put your health and your daughter’s stability at risk, but he’s shown himself to be a misogynist who has no problem with exploiting and abusing vulnerable women whose consent under these circumstances is always dubious. I know it’s hard, and heartbreaking, but he has to go.

He's risked your health while pregnant = unforgiveable.

See a solicitor and make sure that you tell family/friends who can support you. This is his shame, not yours.

And make sure you get tested.