Anyone else just so tired...

[Getbehindme]

.... from all the thinking and worrying and decision making?

I'm currently mid divorce, mid house sale, unsure where I'm heading, not sure what to do for the best. It's so tiring (and we're amicable co parents!).

Sorry for the navel gazing, it's just grinding me down.

Yeah totally. On top of the two years of covid etc the divorce is just an icing on the cake.
Take it one day at a time. Sometimes just half an hour at a time. Hugs x

Gosh yes. It is exhausting. And sometime I cope well and other times not. I keep clinging on to that vision of me and my children somewhere calm and safe. Solidarity X

I am acting so ok with everything that I probably come across as a heartless cow. In fact I am barely holding it together inside for fear if I start to crumble I won't stop ! But I keep looking to the future and reassuring myself I am making the right choice for the right reasons and it will get better. Not as far down the line as you though, separated but living together, and currently not sleeping well !

Yes, I've been representing myself in both court cases (finances and CAO) while he has had a lawyer do everything. I just feel like I can't short change my kids by just rolling over (he has little to do with them and is abusive.) oh yeah, and fighting through the cms as well