So long story short. I'm divorcing a narcissistic arsehole. We agreed a mediation settlement and mediator drew up the paperwork. Ex then changed his mind 6 weeks later after going awol and not giving his comments on it. We are currently at a stand off. It looks like mediation is over. What options do I have now apart from court? Am I right in thinking mediation via solicitor/ solicitor to solicitor/ arbitration? What are the pros and cons if these? Basically ex decided he wanted to give me around £20k less than we'd agreed and now he won't budge.