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Divorce papers served

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JaneP1964 · 16/11/2021 20:37

Divorce papers served on serial cheating spouse today. I know he’s read them but he’s not said anything to me . He’s now hiding away upstairs. We still live in same house in the week. At weekends he stays with his mistress. So why do I feel guilty?

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BunsOfAnarchy · 16/11/2021 22:08

Sorry you're having to go through this OPFlowers

Your spouse is a pig. Please don't feel bad or guilty. You shouldn't have to stay with someone who hasn't given a second thought about you.

Did you name the mistress in the papers? Maybe that's why he's hiding away.

JaneP1964 · 16/11/2021 22:44

Hi no my solicitor advised against it. Besides I don’t know her name. All I know is if he moves in with her he’ll end up cheating on her. Cheated on all his relationships/marriages!

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madisonbridges · 16/11/2021 22:49

You're upsetting his world and so you feel guilty about that because you're a decent, moral human being. Unlike his disgusting sorry arse who you're well shot off.
Congratulations and all the best for your future. x

JaneP1964 · 16/11/2021 23:18

Thank you 😊

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madisonbridges · 16/11/2021 23:19

🥳🥳🥳

JaneP1964 · 16/05/2022 13:56

Just a little up date, he's still not given his financial info to his solicitor and he is still coming back to the marital home during the week! Though he seems a tad annoyed now that I am seeing someone else!!
Naughty me, I should be sat at home pining for him.
And if his mistress is reading this - good luck love your going to need it!

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