Is saying to someone "I've kept you alive all these years" (meaning he's paid for the food all these years), financial abuse? I have paid my way all through this marriage. I've always had a job. Ok not amazing pay.. But I did my best. Also I was and still am the main carer for the kids.. (youngest)
I pay a lot of bills. One of his bills was the groceries. I don't get where he is coming from..