Feeling lonely

[CCmum1117]

Hi everyone, I’m new here!

I just wanted some advice about how you stop feeling lonely whilst going through a divorce. I have family and friends around me but I miss the intimacy. I don’t miss him (I don’t think) I think I miss someone. I won’t go back to ex he had an affair and ended up getting her pregnant I filed for divorce and I don’t regret it but whilst I sit here lonely I hoped you ladies would help me through it and give me your advice. I know I got my babies to get me through it but im sure you all know what Im feeling.

Thanks for listening to me rant! Xx

I think I know how you feel. I don't want my ex back and I don't miss him as much as I miss adult company. Some one to talk to when doing the dishes or to buy bread on their way home.
I'm filling the new found 'spare' time with decluttering the house and garden, cooking things he didn't like and reading as I had gotten out of the habit of reading in bed at night.
2 months in and I'm still adjusting but it's getting easier.
Big hugs - you can do this!

I'm the same - missing 'someone' though not necessarily him. Only 3 weeks in so I guess I have a way to go yet but hoping it gets easier soon.

Same
Covid restrictions don't help, I still don't feel like everything has opened up properly I'm still worried a lot catching it so spend most of my time alone
All friends have husbands and families and have no time for me

I know exactly how you feel. Got a booty call on Sat eve and I nearly agreed - just to have some company - even though didn't want the sex. Decided against (honestly I really need a reward sticker or something for resisting temptation.)
Actually in the early days I would have gone thru with it.... So maybe it does just get easier to handle.