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Day 1. Advice please

4 replies

fedup078 · 08/03/2021 07:56

So yday was the last straw with my alcohol abusing H

Please tell me what to do next, here are our circumstances

Wages
Me £21000
Him £46000

We're currently in the process of buying and selling so that will need to be stopped

I got £140000 inheritance last year. I have £100000 and he has £40000 of it currently in his saving account

Not much in the current account

1 1yro dc

OP posts:
Needacushion · 08/03/2021 08:21

Find and copy every single piece of financial information. Payslips, p60s, pension information, bank statements, savings, investments, mortgage statements.
Having done that, see a solicitor. Ask around, read reviews. You need a really good divorce lawyer.

Needacushion · 08/03/2021 08:22

Credit card statements and tax returns.

Maybe3ornot · 08/03/2021 08:57

As @Needacushion said, photocopy everything. Also make a diary of everything that happens day by day, even little things.

nicewheels · 08/03/2021 21:42

For the love of god get that inheritance back into your account!

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