Hi all,
Some might remember one or two of my other threads about the subject, there has been SS involvement and I have made n application to CMS, as ex wasn't paying regular maintenance, kept saying 'I know' 'I'm gonna' blah blah.
We haven't been having contact, as he has bail restrictions but can contact to ask for child, not that I have to reply, but I have been seething and so did respond today. Brought up maintenance and told him to expect contact from CMS. He went and put money in my account said sorry it's late 🤦♀️ I find that so frustrating and insulting as I am doing it all, I don't expect a pay on the back, as I still have my part to
play whether he was father of the year or not. But what happens in regards to CMS, like they are still in the middle of doing the investigation/confirm with outside sources that he lives where he does, so nothing coming via that way as yet, does it matter if he's paid money to me today?!
Better late than never, but what boils my blood is the fact he thinks that it is okay, what parent could think it okay that the other houses, feeds, pays the bills etc for their child, and yet you don't have to??!! Yes that's right a bad one and an abuser, just that he knows he found himself someone who would do it all, cope, and he always found a way to manipulate me in to everything!
He has had the cheek today to ask me to help him fill in the forms for him to be able to see our son, as no contact has been requested by SS until ex takes it to court. I mean how dare he! How weird and wrong that sounds, so not only did he abuse me, he thinks it's okay to ask me to fill in forms 🤦♀️ well you can can guess what my response to that was!!
Thankyou for reading if you get this far!