Hi, we tried financial mediation but STBXH isn’t budging from a 50-50 asset split. He is also against equalising our pensions.
My question is: he is a self employed sole trader earning £115k. For balance, I earn £35k. During mediation, he said that he had to pay £35k in taxes so the mediator based his income on £80k and did the CMS calculation based on that amount. Is that right?
He also insisted he would be having the kids 1-2 nights a week despite my teens not wanting to stay that often but I let him go with that as they could change their minds!