Hi I'm looking information on divorce, i suffer with anxiety, I hate appointments, waiting ect, it leads to panic attacks. How long does the first appointment take to fill forms etc. The divorce is amicable. My ex is willing to sign. We have 2 children but we've always agreed on arrangements and money. So have no problems. Will I have to attend court etc I've only booked my appointment this morning and my nerves are wrecked. I'm in Northern Ireland, and applying for legal aid as I'm on benefits.