How are these generally treated? STBX is highish earner but has wasted all his money prior to divorce and hidden assets. I on the other hand are sensible (one of the reasons for divorcing) and despite warning much less and being the main carer for our daughters now have considerable savings accrued since separation (lockdown meant I spent far less)
I know if there's not enough money they are fair game (he doesn't have a deposit for a house for example) but what normally happens? Is there anything I can do with it all (28k) ?