My husband basically cheated on me after 27 years, found out a couple of weeks ago, he was also messaging other women to 😢 I want to go to my local and meet up with my friends but I'm so paranoid he's going to turn up with a woman 😢 I know maybe I should avoid it like the plague but I've got nowhere else to go and I'm lonely. I need to get out and see someone as I'm going stir crazy. They're more acquaintances than true friends so they wouldn't go anywhere else. If it happens how do I deal with it???