Hi everyone,
I am in a tricky situation and I need some advice.
I was with my ex for 1 year and I got pregnant very quickly after 3 weeks. Social series became involved in our relationship due to his constant phone calls to professionals about me, claiming that I assaulted him and that I have BPD. I never attacked him and I did a test with a psychiatrist to check my mental health- I do not have bi-polar disorder or BPD.
Social services said I was in a controlling and coercive relationship, so I made the decision to leave my ex with my two month old baby.
I am not originally from this country and I would like to move to France where my family live, or Russia where I have family there as well. I do not have family in this country.
I have applied for a specific issue order and I will claim legal aid because of the domestic abuse as my child is subject to a Child Protection Plan.
I would like to move to France before the withdrawal agreement ends on the 31st December 2020 as I will have a chance to claim residency, anything after that date will be difficult and I will have to find a job in order to move to France to be with my family, or organise a visa, or marry a French man! I just want to be closer to my family.
Do I have any chance to move abroad, will the judge take pity on me and understand that I need to act fast in order to claim residency in France and also that I am fleeing domestic violence?
I have applied to courts for an urgent specific issue order.
Can anyone please advise me on what I should do next?
Thank you!