Well I did it

[Millshake01]

He's gone. Hardest thing I've ever done. Grieving so badly for what we once had. It's been a tough few day's. As I know it is for him.
But today, I get this little fleeting feeling of pure happiness. Taken 4 days to get rid of the deep sadness. It's going to be a long road to heal but after this little happiness episode I know I'm on the start to recovery.
Good luck to all you that are in the same unhappy marriage. If I can start the process then you can

@Millshake01, well done and congratulations!!

If you don`t mind me asking, but how did you broach the subject?? xx

Every time we had a row, (a lot) I always ended the argument saying how crap our marriage is.
Then another time I said we need a break from each other. Told him years ago he was going to loose me if his attitude doesn’t change. So it’s been going on for a while.