My husband and I have discussed splitting up on numerous occasions. He always wants to try again, as I have too. We've been married for over 25 years, 3 older teens, one in uni. I now feel it's the right way to go. It's going to be complicated. He is a partner in business. There are businesses, land, property and pensions to take into account.
I did a previous post and have realised he is controlling. I'm worried about where to start. Do I just tell him? Do I see a solicitor or a mediator? I feel like I've failed and I never thought this would happen to us. I just want it to be amicable but what my husband says and does are two different things.
Any advice would be much appreciated.