So four years after he left me and 18 months after the divorce came through and the settlement was settled it seems my ex has pissed all of his money up the wall on living the good life and is now massively in debt, has another woman in tow and can't get any work.
He has moved to another part of the country where he has managed to get a permanent job which isn't going to help him much as he has debt everywhere.
He wants to take me back to court to get a bigger divorce settlement because he is now saying he regrets settling low.
I am partially disabled and when he left me totally out of the blue I couldn't afford to stay in the home, I had to sell up, move across country and lost £50,000 of my life savings with all of the expenses incurred. My whole life was turned upside down.
He always thinks he can return and sponge more money off me whenever he is skint and I'm just so distraught.
Him leaving turned my life upside down, I now have a mortgage again and don't know how many more years I can work because of my disability. I am absolutely fed up with this and don't need the stress.
The judge approved this settlement without question, there is nothing i have left and I'm really struggling to make ends meet.
Surely if people were allowed to do this the courts would be full of disgruntled divorcees after more money.
I am not rich. All I have left is what I had before I met him.