We have sorted out everything, super amicably, but, I'm moving away and really need some of the equity to help buy a new home. We don't plan to sell until kids finish university so they have a home, he will live there (I currently do, he'll move back). Can he borrow against the equity without it being in my name, or can I use the equity as collateral against a new house? It's not about the payments, just age means ability to borrow is less